Tip 1: How to restrict your child's access to the Internet

Instructions

Install the NetPolice program on your computer. It comes in free and paid versions. There is also a version for the Linux operating system. Select in the program settings, the resources of which particular subject to your to kid forbidden to view.

In order not to install on any software at all, use the service of the same NetPolice service: set the primary DNS server with the IP address 81.176.72.82, and the secondary one with the address 81.176.72.83. This setting can be done in any OS. Requests to sites in the "Pornography" category will be filtered.

The disadvantage of programs that are installed directly on the computer, as well as DNS reconfiguration, is the ability to bypass these measures, say, when booting from a Live CD (children are inventive, and it costs nothing to reset the BIOS password). It is much better to have the provider filter the content of the pages. In this case, no matter how your child reconfigures the equipment, get access he will not be able to access dangerous sites. For information on the availability of such a service, contact the support service of your provider or mobile operator. In the second case, you can limit access to dangerous sites and from a mobile phone.

Some providers implement this service in a slightly different way. The filtering is carried out not by the content of the pages, but by. The child will be able to receive access at only certain hours, and all that remains for you is at these hours next to him and keep track of which resources he is browsing.

Keep in mind, however, that even the Internet cannot be used as a nanny, just like a TV. Communicate more with him, and when he uses the internet, they themselves are interesting sites of the subject that interests him. Interest him yourself, including with the use of the Internet, say, fine art, technical creativity.

How the controlling views of the parents sometimes weigh on the child! Of course, in the first years of his life, everyone was happy. But now that the urge to remove parental controls is unbearable, what to do? You need to become an adult. It's like in the subway - the turnstile has passed, and - freedom. The controllers were left behind. The maturity of a teenager can be seen not only by his physiological characteristics, but also by his emotional manifestations, speech and actions. What should be considered for a person who finds it difficult to breathe due to parental care?

You will need

  • The skill to take care of other people's feelings, and not just about your own.

Instructions

Learn to hold back. An adult is not the one who does whatever he wants, but the one who does the right thing. You don't need to create for yourself someone who throws out their emotions when something goes wrong. Much more attractive in the eyes of parents is the ability to restrain oneself. So don't whine or whine yourself as capricious. Let the kids pout and slam doors. Otherwise, the desired freedom will not be achieved. On the contrary, it may have already forgotten restrictions.

Communicate with your parents in an adult way. Whenever you talk to your parents, reassure them of your understanding. Instead of dissatisfied, “I’m tired of your control!”, It’s better to say: “I understand your concerns, because you want to grow me worthy.” Or you can offer your own adult compromise solution to the situation. It is sometimes helpful to ask directly and respectfully, “I want to be given more freedom. What can I do for this? "

Be proactive. It is important to reassure your parents that you can already be relied on. You can offer yourself as a chef or apartment renovator. Prove that you know how to competently handle and do not waste them on lollipops. If you are already doing some part-time work during the holidays, offer to contribute your share of the utility bills.

Follow parental requirements. Adults know the value of hygiene and. There is no need to look for loopholes in the "law" on brushing teeth and frequent hand washing. Be honest even about small things. If your parents notice that you are only pretending to comply with their requirements, they will pretend that they have removed their control over you.

note

No need to beg and beg for freedom. Never compare your parent's custody with the custody of strangers. Remember, envy is a sign of childhood.

Useful advice

Let any communication with your parents be distinguished by your respect. Remember to thank them for their gentle care of you.

Upload to telephone pictures, music, videos and other files can be done through special services of mobile operators, as well as by sending expensive SMS to various short numbers. On the telephone a serious business has been built in this content. But there is always an alternative to paid entertainment. If you go with computer v telephone, all these files can be uploaded for free.

Instructions

During the existence and widespread distribution of mobile ai, when communication and cellular telephone and and computer became a necessity, device manufacturers have developed three main ways to enter from computer v telephone and transfer files. The first option is through a special cable, most often of the USB standard.
The second option is via Bluetooth.
The third option is via infrared.
Determine which of the listed devices are available to you. All of them, with the exception of the USB cable, require additional installed computer equipment.

Via Bluetooth, you can copy to telephone different files within a few meters of computer... To log in directly from computer v telephone and to carry out various actions with mobile phone files or, for example, SMS messages via Bluetooth, you will need to install a special program. In due time for telephone Several dozen different programs were written from each manufacturer for an amateur. Today, thanks to the trend towards general standardization, you can find programs that allow you to enter from computer v telephone s from different manufacturers, for example, PC Suite or MOBILedit.

Infrared is a technology that is gradually becoming a thing of the past. Its connection and file transfer speed is low, and the operating range is several times shorter than that of the same Bluetooth. Working with it is similar to connecting via Bluetooth, so all requirements for its use remain the same.

Compound computer and telephone and via a USB cable is the most convenient and widespread option. Using the cable, you can enter from computer v telephone as usual (if a memory card is installed in the device), and also see all available disks telephone but, as in the other. In addition to the USB cable, you will also need special software to work with telephone ohm. In this case, the speed of information transfer between telephone ohm and computer will be the greatest for all of the above solutions.

Especially for caring parents, there is a useful parental control service in the operating system. It protects the mental health of children and adolescents from negative information coming from the Internet every day - Nazism, debauchery, violence and other immorality.

You will need

  • Control Panel, Internet Options folder.

Instructions

Find the Start menu on your computer's desktop. Open it up. In the list of services that appears, select "Control Panel". Inside this folder, find the "Internet Options" command. She is responsible for any change in display settings and connection to the local Internet. Click on the icon to start this service. A small new window will appear, at the top of which there are various tabs responsible for general functions, security settings, privacy, Internet connection, additional configurations and, of course, for the content of the incoming information. Go to the appropriate tab titled "Contents". In the upper "Access Restriction" field, click the "Enable" button.

In the lower field "Access restriction" go to the "Age categories" tab. A command list will appear, in which select the category you need to view the grade levels. For easier viewing of commands, use the sliding slider on the right. Next, decide which information to allow children to watch and which to prohibit. The categories you choose can be very different. Here are just a few of them - "Bad Example for", "Portrayal of Gambling", "Sexual Content", "Smoking", "Naked Body", etc. Before installing on a particular group, carefully read the tips below. This will help to correctly establish the degree of restriction of information.

In the next section, "Allowed Sites", you can remove some resources from your "blacklist" of sites. Before doing this, make sure that the texts, photos, animations, audio and video materials contained on the site are safe. Enter the URLs of the exclusion sites you trust. The next step is to click on the "General" tab. In the upper field "User parameters" uncheck the box next to the value "Users can view sites that do not have ratings." Next, check the box next to the "Allow password entry to view restricted sites" value. After selecting this category, set a password. He will perform the function of admission to this service. Except you, no one else can change and disable the installed settings.

note

To enable Parental Control in Windows 7, you need to go to the Control Panel item of the same name (via the Start menu). Here you select the user profile in which your child works: is it for him that you are now setting restrictions? if you have one profile, then you need to create a special profile (account) for the child.

Useful advice

You need to open the "Parental Controls" section. To do this, click on the "Start" menu -> "Control Panel" -> "Parental Control". Now select the user for whom you would like to set parental controls. Click on the item "Enable using the current parameters." Now you can customize all the parameters as you wish.

Sources:

  • Safe Internet browsing

The Internet is a good tool for learning, as it contains a huge arsenal of useful information, and also provides an opportunity to communicate with friends. But in addition to useful information on the Internet, there are sites that children do not want to visit. In addition, a long “walk” on sites distracts the child from completing school homework. Caring parents need to be sure to control the child's time on the Internet, as well as limit him from unnecessary information.